Friday, May 19, 2017

A new post.

I am hearing from people that to give support to another person is something
that they are confessing that they will not do.

It is in regards to two other people disagreeing.

They say it to me.  And the others who do not say it (probably because they are wiser than the people who do say it) definitely act as though they won't "takes sides".

So, I had to look it up because I was thinking, "what the f*ck?"

People give me lots of evidence that they do not find me a reasonable person, which hurts because
I believe I work very hard to be reasonable.  Whenever they boldly say that they won't take sides in
other people's disputes I think, "do they really think that I am an idiot?"

I understand what they mean and it isn't wrong to not choose sides which I hope is what it means
when they say that.  I believe in not choosing sides.  I don't even do that.

But then I did some digging.  It is what I do.

Do you care?  LOL

Define "taking sides": To support one person or group rather than the other.

Define "support".  To keep from fainting, yielding or losing courage; To keep something going.

So, I have a picture.

A husband leaves a wife and her "best" friend says, "I won't take sides".
A sister is finally done with her sister who practices passive aggression on her everytime they meet and another sister says, "I won't take sides".

Who thinks I want people to take my side?

The husband is gone.  She can't DO anything to support him, but she and I are present together so that she might give me some comfort and support, but she says, "I won't take sides".

The other sister is gone and she acts as though I should be sunny and friendly because?  She doesn't take sides, so why should I even THINK sides exist?

Sides exist and SOMETIMES there is only one side for you to comfort.
And why don't you?  BECAUSE YOU DON'T TAKE SIDES.

Well, neither do I take one one side over another unless it is the antichrist against the world.  Would YOU pick the world instead of an antichrist?  I suppose you'd like to think you would,  Maybe you don't.

What I mean is that you can support one side without blaming the other side, but nobody seems to know it is possible because the TREND is "no side taking".

Anyway, that is my rant.  Thank you for checking in.


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